IMAGINE growing up in a tough ex-pit village with no money, no prospects and low self-esteem born out of fortnightly dole queues - not the kind of environment designed to encourage hope.

Now imagine that you are gay.

Statistics suggest there are likely to be as many indigenous homosexuals in Consett and Stanley, County Durham, as there are in Brighton - one in ten.

So, Phoenix - a Chester-le-Street community association for gay and bisexual men - is hoping to recruit members in that nearby bastion of masculinity, Derwentside.

As explained by Phoenix coordinator Chris (members will not use surnames because they might get a brick through their windows, or worse), the North-East is probably home to about 300,000 gays.

He said: "Before they come out many gay men will think they are the only one in their village. You can feel isolated and totally alone.

"You will be afraid of closed minds, especially people who are closed minded to the point of assault.

"Also, the feelings of loneliness can be overwhelming, because you have no one to talk to.

"A lot of people lead double lives but this eventually builds up. You inevitably run out of lies at some point. This is why we can help - we're here to talk to."

Phoenix members talk frankly about their gay experiences in the sometimes intolerant North-East. They casually mention beatings and assaults as though they are an inevitable, if unwanted, part of life. They also describe the common introduction to gay sex for men all over the region - the public toilet experience made infamous by George Michael's arrest in a Los Angeles lavatory.

Phoenix has been set up so gay and bisexual men do not necessarily have to go through similar experiences.

It stresses it is not a dating agency - just a place to meet similar people in fortnightly drop-in sessions and social evenings.

These can include walking, sports activities, barbecues and nights out down the pub.

For more details on the group call the Phoenix hotline on 0191-370 2509 or visit www.phoenix-community-association.org.uk